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Move Beyond The What Ifs

When you want to make a change in your life, you have a quick few seconds in between the desire thought and the action taking thought. It’s where you go from having an idea to actually taking action before your brain kicks into full gear and sabotages any change in behavior.

Your brain is wired to stop you from doing things that are uncomfortable, uncertain, or scary. Making a conscious decision to makes changes in your life are just thoughts…..the real action comes from the unconscious mind. Our conscious mind is considered the Goal Setter and the unconscious mind is considered the Goal Getter. Notice the distinct difference in the two.

It’s the conscious mind that tells us change is scary, which is generally why people don’t take action after the initial thought of wanting something different for themselves.

Whether it’s a different career, a healthier lifestyle, better relationship(s), etc., it’s your job to learn how to move from those thoughts merely being ideas into bona fide action achieving steps.

The beautiful thing is once you realize you have a choice to move beyond autopilot (patterned way of doing things aka like tying your shoes) to decision maker and action taker, everything in your life will change.

When you consciously realize the amount of garbage you put in the way of your hopes, your dreams, your potential, your confidence, your courage, you’re faced with realizing you are the sole result generator of your life.

Once you free your mind of the lies, distorted beliefs, and victimization from your outside reflections, you are powerfully free.

On the flipside, you are no longer able to live from that same reality. You will no longer be able to lean on those lies, distortions, and victimizations you once cleaved too so tightly as if they were a badge of honor. You will no longer live from those past lies, distortions or warn out ‘war’ stories that once ‘justified’ why your life wasn’t the way you wanted it to be. You, Beautiful Soul, will truly understand the meaning of empowerment when you make the decision to take action and make the necessary changes in your life.

Will it be scary? Yes, it can be. Will it be difficult? Yes, it can be. But ponder this; wasn’t it a little scary the first time you attempted to stand up and walk? Wasn’t it a little difficult to gain your bearings and put one foot in front of the other when you began to walk? Yet now after repeated practice, patience, and focus you are able to walk with no real conscious thought of telling yourself to put one foot in front of the other. Amazing, isn't it?

When you were coached, encouraged, and supported to move beyond either sitting or crawling, you literally programmed your brain with new information that with repetition became an unconscious behavior.

Knowing you have this amazing ability, what keeps you from being, doing, and having what you want this very moment in your life? Really, I want you to pause and think about this question as it's important to get crystal clear why you are where you are currently in your life.

Are you feeling stuck in your career? Are you currently in a career transition and unclear what to do next? Are you dissatisfied with your current health and fitness? Do you set goals of eating better, drinking more water, and exercising regulary and fall short of your intentions? Are you desiring a relationship, but are too afraid to get back out there? Do you know what you want, and yet keep attracting the opposite? If you’ve answered yes to any of these questions, schedule some time to talk with me. What have you got to lose by scheduling a call?

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