One of the quickest ways to kill a dream or a goal is hesitation.
Don't get me wrong, having a plan for achieving a said outcome is great, but where I see many of my clients fall short of achieving their goal(s) is in the debilitating stage of indecisivenss.
What happens during this indecisive period or what I would call the hesitation of uncertainty phase is it opens the doors to our Inner Critic taking control of the situation.
Our Inner Critic is the MASTER of hesitational dodging. The one that has more tricks up their sleeves than a magician has scarves.
This rascal can cause you so much discord that before you know it you are standing before your door of opportunity and you no longer realize you're standing before it. You become paralized with FEAR, feeling like you are wearing cemented shoes and have frozen arms. In the meanwhile as you stand before the door of your desire, your goal, your WHY YOU WANT WHAT YOU WANT, your mind spins a million miles an hour while the remainder of your body remains frozen in time.
Breaking through this incapacitated state, REQUIRES you breaking through the illusion of FEAR. How?
By making a choice......DECIDE to move forward. (Hint--YOU DON'T HAVE TO HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS TO DECIDE.)
If truth be told, when we are stuck frozen in our indecisiveness state WE ARE MAKING A CHOICE. A choice to remain stuck, to remain the same, to remain a VICTIM to our Inner Critic's haunting words of "WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?"
If you are standing before the door, and uncertain of how to open it or if you should open it, lets talk. I'm really freaking good out taming Inner Critics and help people take their lives back.